Christian Speed Dating for Meaningful Connections
Welcome to Elevated Encounters - where we take Christian courtship to a whole new level! We're not your average speed-dating squad; we're all about creating a safe space for soulful singles to mingle, connect, and find their match while staying true to their values. Our events are all about weaving together faith and love, creating a vibrant tapestry of meaningful relationships that will leave you feeling truly blessed. So, if you're ready to take a leap of faith and find your rib-mate, let us be your guide on this divine journey to everlasting love!
About Elevated Encounters
We curate an elevated, purpose-driven platform for Christian singles seeking genuine connections within a committed and faith-centered community. Our mission is rooted in fostering sincere relationships founded on shared values, culminating in the pursuit of enduring companionship and the sanctity of marriage.
Guided by the principles of faith, integrity, and authenticity, we orchestrate meticulously structured speed dating events that transcend the conventional. Every interaction within our gatherings is a deliberate step toward discovering profound compatibility and nurturing relationships that echo the commitment to a shared life journey.
It’s a date!
Upcoming Events at
Speakeasy in Anoka
March:
14th at 7pm Age Group: 26-36
21st at 7pm Age Group: 34-42
28th at 7pm Age Group: 37-50
April:
3rd at 7pm Age Group: 26-36
10th at 7pm Age Group: 34-42
17th at 7pm Age Group: 37-50
24th at 7pm Age Group: 47+
FAQS
What to expect during the event
Once the event begins, you will have the opportunity to chat with your potential 'Rib-Mates' for 6-7 minutes at a time. Halfway through the event, there will be a 6-10 minute break to use the restroom or get a beverage and then proceed until the end of the night.
How long is the event?
You can expect it to be about two hours.
What to do when the event is sold out?
We apologize for the inconvenience, but when it comes to our events, availability can go fast. However, don't lose hope just yet! E-mail elevatedencounters@gmail.com to inquire about being added to the waitlist. Also, keep an eye on our website as last-minute spots may become available. Our event calendar is regularly updated, so be sure to check back often.
When will an event be cancelled?
Please note that an event will only be cancelled if there are unforeseeable circumstances, not enough attendees, or a large uneven male-to-female ratio. A notification will be sent out if this happens.
Curious as to whether we offer free tickets if you don't find a match?
While we can't guarantee a match, we do invite charming and delightful individuals back with discounts or even complimentary tickets. Our aim is to build a fantastic community of daters who others would love to meet.
Do you give refunds?
We do not provide refunds. However, your ticket is still valid for a future date.
Complimentary Discounts: How your attitude can pay off.
Did you know that your behavior can earn you a complimentary discount? By demonstrating respect towards the host and attendees, as well as receiving positive feedback, you could be eligible for a discount.
Dealing with Inappropriate Behavior: Are there any protocols?
In the event that someone behaves inappropriately, it is essential to have clear protocols in place. While it is unfortunate that such actions can take place, it is vital to ensure that the behavior is not tolerated. The individual will be asked to leave, and will not be invited back.
Are the events open to Christians who are part of the LGBTQ+ community?
The decision not to include the LGBTQ community in our services is based on our interpretation of biblical teachings that define marriage and relationships. We hold a traditional view of marriage as outlined in the Bible, where it is seen as a sacred union between a man and a woman.
What makes you different from other speed dating companies?
We stand apart from other speed dating companies due to our emphasis on traditional biblical values. Our platform offers more than just introductions; it's a nurturing space for healing and growth, featuring specialized workshops to enhance relational skills. Our focus revolves around fostering lasting connections within a community that shares and values faith-based principles.
Are these events exclusively for finding a spouse?
Yes, these events are exclusively designed for individuals seeking a lifelong partner. While other events cater to those seeking friendships, these gatherings are intentionally focused on individuals who are serious and intentional about pursuing meaningful romantic relationships.
Do you offer any additional resources or support beyond speed dating events?
Absolutely, in addition to our speed dating events, we provide a range of supplementary services aimed at supporting individuals and couples in their relationship journeys. These include tailored workshops, individual counseling sessions, and specialized sessions for couples seeking guidance or enrichment in their relationships. Our goal is to offer comprehensive support beyond the events, empowering our community with resources and guidance for meaningful and lasting connections. Prices vary.
Terms & Conditions
1. User Agreement and Acceptance:
Welcome to Elevated Encounters. By accessing or using our platform, you agree to these Terms and Conditions.
Eligibility:
You must be at least 25 years old and legally eligible in your jurisdiction to use our services.
2. Services Offered:
Description of Services:
Our platform facilitates speed dating events and offers relationship coaching services aimed at fostering meaningful connections within the Christian community.
Limitations:
We reserve the right to modify, suspend, or discontinue any part of our services at any time.
3. Privacy and Data Protection:
Data Collection:
We collect and process user data by our Privacy Policy. By using our services, you consent to this collection and processing."
Confidentiality:
Any personal information shared during events should be treated confidentially and not shared without explicit consent.
Videos and Photos taken by employees are only used for social media and will not capture conversations.
4. User Responsibilities:
Accuracy and Conduct
Users are responsible for providing accurate information and agree to behave respectfully towards others using our platform. Any user behaving in disrespectful ways will be asked to leave and will not
participate in any future event.
Event Conduct:
During events, users are expected to maintain punctuality and conduct themselves in a respectful manner.
Company Disclaimer:
While Elevated Encounters strives to create a safe environment, we cannot be held responsible for any actions or behavior of users after events, including but not limited to, instances of assault, harassment, or misconduct. Users are expected to exercise sound judgment and caution.
5. Intellectual Property:
Ownership:
All content, trademarks, and intellectual property on our platform belong to Elevated Encounters.
User Rights:
Users are granted limited rights to access and use our platform solely for personal, non-commercial purposes.
6. Liability and Disclaimers:
Limitation of Liability:
While Elevated Encounters strives to create a safe environment, we cannot guarantee or be held responsible for any actions or behavior of users during or after events, including but not limited to, instances of assault, harassment, or misconduct. Users are expected to exercise sound judgment and caution.
Expectations:
It's important to note that Elevated Encounters does not guarantee finding a spouse or a specific outcome from using our services. We offer a platform to facilitate connections and interactions within the Christian community.
7. Payment Terms:
Payment:
Payment terms for events or services are outlined at the time of registration. Refunds or cancellations are subject to our policies.
Refund Policy:
Refunds may be available according to our stated policies and will be processed in accordance with those policies.
8. Dispute Resolution:
Dispute Mechanisms:
Any disputes or claims arising from the use of our services will be resolved through arbitration/mediation in [Jurisdiction].
9. Termination and Modification:
Termination:
We reserve the right to terminate a user's access to our platform for violating these terms or for any other reason deemed necessary."
Modifications:
We may modify or update these Terms and Conditions at any time. Users will be notified of any changes.
10. Governing Law:
Jurisdiction:
These Terms and Conditions are governed by the laws of [Jurisdiction]. Any disputes will be subject to the exclusive jurisdiction of the courts in [Jurisdiction].
Before the Event Tips
Dress Comfortably and Confidently: Choose an outfit that reflects your style and makes you feel confident. Comfort is key; you want to focus on connections, not discomfort.
To prepare, understand your dealbreakers, which should not be confused with compromises.
Open-Mindedness: Keep an open mind and be willing to explore connections beyond your initial expectations. Don't solely focus on predetermined criteria (unless it’s a dealbreaker); sometimes, unexpected connections blossom.
Arrive Early: Be punctual to get settled and relaxed before the event begins. This also allows for a smoother start to your interactions.
Having a few open-ended and engaging questions ready before starting a conversation can help spark discussions. It's best to avoid yes/no questions and opt for inquiries that reveal more about the person. Suggested questions include one light-hearted and one serious question, but choose ones that align with your objectives.
List of questions options:
- What’s the most embarrassing thing you can remember that’s happened to you?
- What does a typical day look like for you?
- What kind of foods don’t you eat?
- What’s the best advice anyone ever gave you?
- What are your pet peeves?
Important reminder for those seeking a partner
While searching for your ideal match, it's perfectly fine to relax and enjoy the process. It's great to be intentional, but it's important not to become too attached to someone too quickly, both mentally and emotionally.
At the Event Tips
Asking the Right Questions: The importance of a strong first impression
In order to pique someone's interest, you have only six minutes. With finding a partner in mind, avoid superficial small talk and focus on meaningful inquiries. Prepare three questions in advance, two of which should be light-hearted and one that is more serious.
Initiating interest without pressure
When you meet someone you're intrigued by, it can be tempting to say something that puts pressure on them to respond. Avoid premature remarks such as, "I hope we match" or anything that implies choosing each other. Instead, express your enjoyment of the interaction by saying, "I enjoyed talking with you" or "It was nice meeting you." This approach is cordial and removes the stress of expectation, making for a more natural connection.
How to handle being uninterested in someone?
It's natural to not connect with everyone, and you may find yourself looking forward to the end of the date. However, it's important to remain polite and respectful. Give them a chance, as sometimes we dismiss people too quickly. Stay open-minded and curious. Who knows? You may know someone who would be a better match for them.
After the Event Tips
Managing expectations after a speed dating event
It's natural to feel disheartened if you don't receive a notification that you matched after a speed dating event. However, don't be too quick to conclude that no one was interested in you. It's possible that the people who picked you weren't people you were interested in as well.
The Upside of Rejection: A new perspective
If you find yourself without any matches, consider this alternative viewpoint: perhaps you or the individuals you selected dismissed each other too quickly, especially if there were no dealbreakers involved. Rejection can be seen as a form of redirection – a blessing in disguise. It's a relief that time, energy, and emotions weren't invested beyond the initial spark. You may feel disappointed, but at least you're weeding people out to get to your rib-mate.
Don’t give up after one try
Don't lose heart after one attempt. Just as success in any endeavor demands dedication and persistence, building relationships requires patience and effort. Rome wasn't built in a day, and strong relationships take time. Keep showing up, refining your relational skills, praying, and trust in the gradual progress guided by faith.
‘You Matched’ Tips
Initiate Contact Promptly
Don't wait too long after the event to reach out. We’re all about you doing what suits you, but here at Elevated Encounters, we encourage men to take the lead. Call her (leave a VM or message) expressing your pleasure at the match and suggest a follow-up date. Ask her when she’s free and suggest three date ideas and confirm the day of the date. If she’s comfortable with it, pick her up.
You lose interest-now what?
It’s okay to lose interest after a date or two. It can be hard to let someone down and people tend to ghost. Ghosting implies that you don’t have the skills, maturity, or character people need to make relationships work. So let’s move passed that and have a respectful moment. Here is something simple you can say, “While I enjoyed getting to know you, I don’t see this as a fit. I hope everything goes well for you.”
Feeling low after being let down?
Don't be too hard on yourself! It's completely normal for someone to not feel the spark after just one or two dates. Take a deep breath, and be grateful for the time they did spend with you. After all, they didn't play any games and were honest with you from the start! Keep shining and keep searching for that special someone who will appreciate all that you have to offer.
Services
Communication Enhancement Package: Improve your communication skills with our 3-hour course! Learn effective communication strategies, active listening techniques, and conversation starters.
The Confidence Boosting Package is designed to enhance self-esteem, tackle inner doubts and promote a positive self-image. The package includes a two-hour session.
Healing and Growth Package:
Take part in engaging sessions that focus on self-reflection, recognizing patterns and establishing objectives for personal growth.
- Single session (up to 2 hours)
- Ongoing sessions (8-12 weeks)
Send an e-mail about which of the services you’re interested in and we’ll get back to you.